Thursday, January 13, 2011

Letting Go of Hurt & Mistrust

When someone has done what we neither expected nor wanted them to do , our attachment to our expectation causes us to be hurt. The hurt imagined or not , causes mistrust to arise within us. To free ourselves from habitual mistrust of others , we have to become aware that it's our response that contains the hurt , and not the other person's behavior that causes the hurt. Realize- it is not what you say , it is what I do with what you say or do that makes me feel this way .



13 comments:

  1. Any mischief may occur in misunderstanding the fact also

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  2. जय श्री कृष्ण...आप बहुत अच्छा लिखतें हैं...वाकई.... आशा हैं आपसे बहुत कुछ सीखने को मिलेगा....!!

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  3. जय श्री कृष्ण...आप बहुत अच्छा लिखतें हैं...वाकई.... आशा हैं आपसे बहुत कुछ सीखने को मिलेगा....!!

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  4. जय श्री कृष्ण...आप बहुत अच्छा लिखतें हैं...वाकई.... आशा हैं आपसे बहुत कुछ सीखने को मिलेगा....!!

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  5. Damn Hit1 you wrote divya g...if ol of us will get dis...nobdy gonna be hurt truely...besteez..

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  6. you always hurt the one you love, well, we fell hurt mostly when we expect something from our dear ones n in return dont get that... in that sense u r right i suppose, that "its our response that contains the hurt".....not the other way !!!

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  7. Really Good
    Thanks for this good message

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  8. very true,
    Actual cause we never see ,as you told rightly it lies in us ,in our expectation.
    thanks.

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  9. दिव्या जी यह तो पहले से ही जुङा हुआ है ।
    धन्यवाद

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  10. so the moral of the story is expect the unexpected ..be prepared for any kinda eventuality and never take anything or anyone for granted ..accept disappointments as an integral part of the game and march ahead taking things in ur stride ...easier said than done i know ,,lol

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