Sunday, May 8, 2011

Shall we stop being kind ?

Quite often we feel depressed or resentment overpowers us when we do not get the desired result and when our kindness is not being answered the way we anticipate.

But the question is shall we give up or stop being kind to others ?

People are often unreasonable, self-centered: Forgive them anyway.
If you are Honest, People may cheat you, but be Honest anyway.
What you spend years to build, someone could destroy overnight, Build anyway.
The good you do today, People will often forget tomorrow, Do Good anyway .

See, in the final analysis it is between you and God; it never was between you and them anyway.



  1. Honestly it is easy to write it but very difficult to practice....Agree in the final analysis it is between God and you but then who and where is God when someone cheats you or destroys everything you build....

  2. .

    Dear A ,

    Nothing is destroyed completely . It is just the conservation of energy in one or the other form, which we lesser mortals cannot see. We start crying over the spilled milk but we fail to see what 'wonderful things' future has in store for us.

    The ultimate destroyer and creator is God only . So we are supposed to do our duties without any expectations.


  3. anyone can destroy everything we have build ..but not our integrity ..our dedication...our roots...and i think this post is describing these values which can't be destroyed..

  4. ok.
    It is between we and God only.

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  6. Path of kindness is the most difficult one. Kindness is flow of brightest human energy.

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  8. तुम तो फूलों से भी ज्यादा नाज़ुक हो , प्यार क्या करोगे
    हम तो कायल हैं उन झोकों के , जो 'लोहे' को सहला कर गुज़र जाते हैं ।us blog par comment ki suvidha nahin thi isiliye yahan dena pada.....kyonki mujhe bahut achcha laga, kuch kahe bina nahin rah wali post bhi pasand aayee.

  9. what we give we will get it back today or tomorrow
    its better be honest and kind.

  10. Very correct what mr.Bhushan said"the path of kindness is very difficult"I say yes,but follow it any way.because this path only take you close to the god.Do whatever give you satisfaction.nice compilation of thoughts.god bless you.

  11. कर भला !हो भला !अंत भले का भला !
    "नेकी कर दरिया में डाल"
    पानी से पानी मिले ,मिले कीच से कीच ,
    अच्छों को अच्छे मिलें ,मिलें नीच को नीच ।
    जब बिच्छु काटने का दंशित करने का अपना स्वभाव नहीं छोड़ता ,हम मनुष्य होकर क्यों छोड़ें ?
    अछि पोस्ट के लिए बधाई !

  12. Kindness is a basic trait of homo sapiens,which differentiates us from other mammals .Kindness minus we equals no existence .

  13. but isn't god present in all of us.. every human.. So as you say why shuould we stop the kindness..
    and God is there not there We dont know, why should we think of that what we dont know of .. and if people forget all the kindness then its there own LOSS


  14. Divya ji,your post is a symbolic struggle,I personally appreciate yr approach.Aap apne upnaam ko hi sarthak kar rahi hain .
    hardik mangal kamnayen

  15. To forgive is really divine, Zeal ! Still we humans can try.
    Nice post , a reflection of your sublime thoughts !