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Wednesday, July 27, 2011

Are we really progressing ?

India unfortunately is lacking leaders. There was a time when we had real heroes those who fought selflessly for our freedom and sacrificed their lives.

Now a days 'leaders' are replaced by diplomats and politicians , who are hardly concerned with the development or progress of our country They are not at all bothered by the grievances of common man. 40 percent population is living below poverty line but the rich are getting richer. The difference is growing between rich and the poor with a great speed.

They have tall claims that India has developed a lot but the truth is that we have lost our grip on many significant fronts With this type of ineffective leadership India will lead nowhere.


We Indians copy the Western culture on silly counts like fashion , openness and homosexuality but unfortunately we do not follow the British way of tackling the awful mess . The journalism their is admirable. They do not hesitate or fear in criticizing, exposing or taking names of their politicians. Their efforts are determined and meticulous in contrast to our media where they are reluctant to question or expose their colleagues , as it happened in Radia's case.


Worst part is when our media dares to question the PM , he is either unavailable or protected by his advisers, unlike Cameron who made himself available to face all the criticism in west .


Majority of countries are victim of terrorism but the selfish politicians of India have developed the habit of consoling themselves and fooling the general lot by saying - "Spirit of Mumbai" . Rest of the world have learnt their lessons from terror attack and have improved their law and order except India where our leaders have mastered the art of making tall claims and sympathizing with the victims for a brief period. Mumbaikars are living in fear of bomb attacks for past two decades but our government seems reluctant to take any effective measure.


There is no improvement in the facilities at a grass root level even . The current political dissonance and institutional attitude do not inspire confidence.


Indian media needs to stop sensationalizing everything and should cover issues with sincerity and due diligence . It should be a strong corruption free crusader against injustice.


India is not keeping pace with its development needs We need to delink politics from reform processes and improve our regulatory framework to reach our global leadership goals. We must not tie ourselves with allies which adversely affects our autonomy. We need to be more strategic in developing relationship with neighboring countries.


Government needs to confer 'infrastructure' status on all fronts Brain drain should be checked and measures should be taken for reverse brain drain . We need to look into the reasons for people reluctant to serve their own country . The lack of innovation and quality research and development is putting our country at lower graph. Growth in jobs are needed . There should be major expansion in all spheres , be it health , education , science or security . Our products are not making any remarkable impact in global market . For our country to progress we need to have thoughtful leaders who do not ignore the demands of one billion population and resonate well with the common lot.


Zeal

Wednesday, June 15, 2011

Ever tried to recharge yourself ?

The way we need a Sunday after six working days and a break of eight hours of sleep after 16 hours of hectic day to relax, similarly we need to rejuvenate and gather our strength back at small intervals.

By keeping silence we can achieve that . It means unplugging, disconnecting from the many sources that absorb our energy: problems, worry, pleasing, fear and overload। To be released quickly from all these debilitating socket points, we need to become introspective and quiet. This revitalizes our thoughts.Every thought we create is energy and it produces its own current, whether negative or positive. In quietness we step inside and we stabilize ourselves in the thought of original peace. Then slowly, we begin to feel great. This original current of peace releases us from burden and fear.


All things have their time. All things have their answers. All things have their right to be. Accepting this reality, all things come into harmony
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Saturday, May 21, 2011

Beauty lies in the eyes of beholder.

Things are either allowed or disallowed. We must not allow others to poison our minds. We have our own intellect and experiences to know and understand others. Why to rely on others?

It is said that beauty lies in the eyes of beholder. When we find someone kind and modest, then it is our own virtue that sees the other person as good. It depends on ourselves what we want to see. When we are focused on others virtues then we start sending positive vibes to him, which connects us . While looking for vices makes us too negative and the negative vibes hinders in establishing a healthy relationship between the two.

An ant is tiny beside an elephant but as soon as an ant enters the ear of an elephant it goes crazy . The elephant’s ears are so big, the elephant itself is so big and yet a tiny ant makes it go wild. In the same way, if I allow the slightest defamation of anyone go through my ears, I lose all my spirituality. I lose all my value because I start interacting with others on the basis of what I have heard about them. Pay attention to this! We have to be very, very selective in what we allow to enter our ears. Let me learn to see only virtues and specialties. Let me not concentrate on anyone’s weaknesses.

Thanks.

Sunday, May 8, 2011

Shall we stop being kind ?

Quite often we feel depressed or resentment overpowers us when we do not get the desired result and when our kindness is not being answered the way we anticipate.

But the question is shall we give up or stop being kind to others ?

People are often unreasonable, self-centered: Forgive them anyway.
If you are Honest, People may cheat you, but be Honest anyway.
What you spend years to build, someone could destroy overnight, Build anyway.
The good you do today, People will often forget tomorrow, Do Good anyway .

See, in the final analysis it is between you and God; it never was between you and them anyway.

Thanks

Thursday, April 28, 2011

Peace in life !

We spend most of our life running after things, doing things. We forget that being comes before doing. Those who remember this secret make an effort to "be" and discover that when they stop and observe, life helps and brings whatever is needed. Learning to be is learning to be at peace. It is our most fundamental nature.

Friday, April 22, 2011

Change is constant !

It is wise to bend rather than to break. Those who change will get spiritual wisdom. Conversely, those who have wisdom will decide to change. Change is the first law of Nature

In Hindi it is said--"फल आने पर डालियाँ विनम्रता से झुक जाती हैं "

What stops us to bend ? It is our EGO ! It is false ego which doesn't allow us to bend or accept the situations coming our way.

Those who learn from surroundings, past experiences and their own mistakes, they tend to rectify and correct themselves by bringing a positive change in there persona.

This constructive change enhances their beauty and make them more acceptable and desirable by all. No one can remain the same after some time. we change every moment and we are at times a completely different person with a positive change in us.

So we can say that change is the only thing which is constant। We are dead as rock if we do not change. Let's welcome the beautiful changes in ourselves and surrounding as well.

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Wednesday, April 20, 2011

Modesty

Humility dismisses nothing, rather, it takes even small things into consideration। It recognises that whatever life presents, needs to be respected. Small things are easily found in something big, but inside little things there is often greatness.

A man is deprived of all the beauty if he/she is not blessed with modesty. Modesty is a virtue, as essential as oxygen in our lives. Without this virtue, one can never rise very high in his life.

Modesty helps in solving many problems, building healthy relationships and often it soothes a man in peril. Humility pays and it works wonders.

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